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Why does she get to be perfect?

Okay, so the girl isn’t exactly mean. But she’s really annoying. She acts all “cute” and stuff. And she’s just so naturally funny. And I guess i hate her cos im jealous. She’s cute, funny, pretty. And she likes the guy I like. And I’m definitely not as pretty as her. So yes, I’m jealous. But is that so wrong? Why can’t she just GO AWAY?? Why does she get to be so perfect?

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Answer #1

I have a girl I know in my life that is the same way.. She seems perfect like not even real she is so great…everybody loves her, pretty, funny, popular..all the guys love her stare at her and it is hard to not be jealous…but you know what…nobody is perfect we all have flaws she is just better at hiding hers..you know…

I would just be yourself because you shouldnt have to be something you are not to impress a guy…and if like I have done in the past try to be like someone else so somebody would like me…that is short term…be yourself and if he has sense he will like you for you ! Personality def. counts for something too..

Answer #2

Hey, we all feel like that about someone at some point in our lives. It is not wrong to feel like that at all. Now.. you shouldn’t be worried about the guy you like wanting this other girl simply because she’s prettier. That would be very shallow of him. You should be telling yourself HEY I have a really amazing personality, which she doesn’t. I can win his heart over her. (not that getting a guy should really be a competition, but you know what I mean)

Rather than being so critical about yourself, point out all the really cool things, or things you like about yourself. The ONLY guy worth your time is the one who falls for YOU, not what you look like. Trust me.. shallow guys… don’t even want to go there.

Answer #3

You are worrying too much…just make that guy know you are the better choice.

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