Me and my girlfriend do a lot on the comp and talk about it but...

but she says she isnt ready for me to finger her or anything and that she will feel guilty how do I get her to allow me to finger her? we have been dating for 3 months but have known each other for 4

Answer #1

you should ask her to tell you every reason she feels like she will regret it and why it is important to her.. and YOU SHOULD LISTEN!!! And go off of what she says

Answer #2

wait till she is ready. don’t pressure her into it. when she’s ready. she will let you. I let my exboyfriend finger me after two weeks. and I completely regret it cause we didnt last more then two months.

she will also feel a lot more comfortable whens he’s ready. If you pressure her into it. then you will probably pressure her into other stuff!

Answer #3

I don’t think you should MAKE her allow you to do anything, Respect her and let things happen as they will. would you want her to force you to do something you did not want to do or that you were not ready to do?

Answer #4

we have known each other for 4 years*

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