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please help I am havinga really hard time understanding my man. I am 27 he’s 39 I am always wanting sex he sometimes does but not as much as I do. when I try to get him to get it on> about 85% of the time hes down to do it but the other 25% of the time he says hes not in the mood and we just hang out wich if fine but then I fall asleep or go to bed and he stays up and the next morning I find the ky or a porno and I just dont understand why? why is he taking care of himself when he knows I want to do it for him? I am very UNselfish in bed I give really good head and try to do it all the time for him. when I confront him about this all he does is say iots not you, we have sex all the time, I love you and you know it. please help me understand I am not a bad looking girl I am very open to new things in the bedroom and he knows that and says he loves that im a “freak”. so whats the problem why dosent he want me? we have been together for 3 years and have lived together for one year. I guess im asking is it me? he says no but I am really upset about the situation when I tell him I am upset he says just drop it its not you everything is fine I love having sex with you its all good just let it go??? OMG I AM SO CONFUSED HELP!!!

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Answer #1

yep hes addicted girl

Answer #2

I would agree with the person above me.. it sounds like an addiction issue.

Answer #3

well, there’s nothing wrong with you…its very strange to find him watching porn and masturbating to it when he has you for a girl and he can experience the real thing… he probably feels better doing it on his own… maybe he’s not attracted to you, or better yet females… maybe he’s gay… maybe he finds the girls in the porn videos more attracting… maybe your body is not appealing to him anymore… Sit down and tell him WHAT IS UP?…give him an ultimatum… If I were you, I would leave him cus him choosing porn over his own girl, that is just sickening…It’s like he’s having sex with porn… It’s like he’s cheating on you with another girl… he definitely has an addiction problem.

Answer #4

Kim stated it correctly

Answer #5

Kim stated it correctly

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