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I have been married to my husband for 5 years as of 06-12-09 and we have 2 kids toeghter and I just had are 2nd one 5 months ago and for the last couple months he wont have sex with me only about 2 or 3 times a month and he has never been very affectionate I keep thinking maybe he dont love me anymore but im not sure whats going on he is not cheating I know that for a fact so I checked that off my list does anyone else maybe know why could be up?

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Answer #1

My husband too did this, It was just a depressed mode he was in but he had no reason to be in it.You haveing a baby can make a man feel like they arent the baby any more even though you have other kids.You need to sit down now and talk with him before it progresses to worse things like him turning violent towards the kids but not meaning to.

Answer #2

Sometimes after a woman gives birth the changes in your body are new to him and it is strange. Try to spice things up with some sexy stuff that shows off your best features =o)

Answer #3

It could very likely be a chemical imbalance in him. Too little testosterone, as it might be. He could also be depressed, though it may be about nothing in particular. I would immediately confront him and ask him why he has suddenly lost interest. I doubt it is anything you’re doing or not doing, but you could ask if there is anything you could do to help. If he can’t give you a good explanation, tell him to see a doctor. If he won’t see one, see one for him. Tell a doctor you trust about your situation and he will most definitely at least point you in the right direction or refer you to someone else.

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