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im having a problem,, I love her so much that I dont want her to be unhappy or to leave her, but I love myself to much to settle for being un happy. cause she wants me to be patient, but I want to live. weve done everything, I've told her everything I feel for her how ide do anything for her, kill someone, steal something, take a bullet for her, those kind of things, cause I would. but then I asked how much she loved me and she went on about ripples in ponds and the midnight sky, but seemed to avoid the question a bit. and I believe that in a relationship both people should be happy and willing to do anything for the other as long as the other takes into consideration the others happiness. cause love is not greedy. yet I dont know how to find out if she loves me in the same way I love her. weve been together for 7 months yesterday.
Sometimes women speak a totally different language than men. She may be more emotive and symbolic in her expression of love for you, but it doesn't mean that she loves you any less than you do.
Guys just tend to be pretty straightforward, blunt, and sometimes uncreative when it comes to expressing their love (I.e "ide do anything for her, kill someone, steal something, take a bullet for her, those kind of things" - we've heard these plenty of times before). So you may not hear the exact words you were expecting to hear, but she probably said it in a more meaningful, albeit cryptic, way.