Do you think he "likes" me or was he just still being nice and friendly?

When I was at my best friend’s house a few weekends ago. A few of the deer hunters were there and we came over to visit them and one of them was asking me how old my son was and where he’s living, how far away the town he’s living in was, how often I got to see him, what school I go to and where it was, if I was working, and we were talking about how popular Facebook was (my friend was there too). If I remember correctly he’s not married but has a 5 or 6 year old son himself, but he knows I’m married because I’ve mentioned it before. But him and some other deer hunters come there to hunt every year and he’s met me before. But the questions he asked me seemed like the kind of questions that a stalker would ask or something. He’s a little bit older than me but still on the young side (I’m 26). I don’t see him but once or twice a year and he hardly knows me. Also, yesterday I went back out to my best friend’s mother’s house to help babysit and last night me, my best friend’s mother and her grandson went over to visit them again and we had started a fire and then he got some chairs out for us to sit by the fire and he had one chair about one or two feet away from his and he invited me to sit next to him (he grinned) and when we were talking he seemed like he was paying attention to what I was saying and then he asked me if I would like to watch the movie Star Trek with him and he was grinning and chuckled about it. Then a few minutes later he suggested that I would watch it with him and he still grinned and chuckled and then when we was about to leave he ask my best friend’s mother if it would be OK for me to stick around and watch it with (still grinned and chuckled), but I never gave him answer and just smiled and giggled about it. Then after she left, her grandson wanted to get a piece of candy from him and he always does, but her grandson ran inside and he invited me to come in and then he got the candy and we was leaving he told me to be careful. But he’s been coming to my friend’s house to hunt for several years and knows her and her family really well. Do you think was just still being nice and friendly or do you think there’s something more to it? Thanks! :) (This is an updated question).

Answer #1

It seems like he was asking those questions to try and get to know you a little better, since he doesn’t know you very well yet and isn’t from that area. It’s possible that he likes you, but if you are married then you probably should gently decline requests he makes to get together. That, or perhaps joke and ask if your husband can tag along to remind him that you’re not really available for that kind of thing. Since you guys were laughing, I’d probably go with the joke side. If he does make you uncomfortable, however, perhaps not visiting with him and the others next time they are down may be a better idea.

Answer #2

He kinda seems creepy and stalkerish… im 24 seeing that your 26 close in my age… newayz he was asking a lot of questions about your son which was weird/creepy… and the way he laughed and grinned at everything he said wud creep me out… how old is he? But he does like u and hes showing you in creepy ways… like hes gettin way 2 personal and all with u and shouldnt have asked all the questions about ur son if he wanted 2 know u more… maybe if it was just how old is ur son and if u had ne other kids… he likes u but i wud becareful with and around him… if u do go on a date or nething just as friends i wud bring some1 around for maybe the 1st or 5x or so just 2 be on the safe side he seems eerie 2 me… if u wan countine to talk 2 me funmail me… i won’t mind it.

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Answer #4

Ok, thanks for the info! :)

Answer #5

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Answer #6

He seems MAYBE like the player type. I’m a little younger but it seems like maybe he isn’t a stalker or any such thing and more of a player. Although he might actually just find you attractive. The only way to know for sure, as you probably guessed, would be to ask him. Then again that might just make things totally awkward so unless you don’t care about not speaking to him again I would just say that he likes you, which to me seems like is what is going on. If he starts following you and always “running into you” then I would just come out and ask him or something. Hope this helped! Good luck!

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Answer #8

Um…, I don’t know really cause my husband has cheated on me a couple or few times throughout our marriage and right now he’s been talking and flrting with another woman on the phone that he’s known for a long time (I think she’s an ex girllfriend) and the other day she had texted my husband and told him I was on him page and that I was asking her a bunch of questions which I didn’t do and she had put words in my mouth and caused trouble between me and my husband. He’s in louisiana and stays gone for two weeks, comes home for a few days and leaves again for work. But I think he talks to her more than he does to me. Then when he was busy snaping my head off on the phone, he had threatened me with a divorce saying if I didn’t have a job by the end of spring that we was gonna get one. But he just wants to quit his job and live off of me. But I’m not sure how old the deer hunter is. Although he looks like he’s in his late 30’s or early 40’s and he ha blue eyes (I love blue eyes). He also seems sweet and outgoing. But my family wishes that me and my husband would get a divorce and so does his family cause his family don’t me either.

Answer #9

Um…, I don’t know really cause my husband has cheated on me a couple or few times throughout our marriage and right now he’s been talking and flrting with another woman on the phone that he’s known for a long time (I think she’s an ex girllfriend) and the other day she had texted my husband and told him I was on him page and that I was asking her a bunch of questions which I didn’t do and she had put words in my mouth and caused trouble between me and my husband. He’s in louisiana and stays gone for two weeks, comes home for a few days and leaves again for work. But I think he talks to her more than he does to me. Then when he was busy snaping my head off on the phone, he had threatened me with a divorce saying if I didn’t have a job by the end of spring that we was gonna get one. But he just wants to quit his job and live off of me. But I’m not sure how old the deer hunter is. Although he looks like he’s in his late 30’s or early 40’s and he ha blue eyes (I love blue eyes). He also seems sweet and outgoing. But my family wishes that me and my husband would get a divorce and so does his family cause his family don’t me either.

Answer #10

Um…, I don’t know really cause my husband has cheated on me a couple or few times throughout our marriage and right now he’s been talking and flrting with another woman on the phone that he’s known for a long time (I think she’s an ex girllfriend) and the other day she had texted my husband and told him I was on him page and that I was asking her a bunch of questions which I didn’t do and she had put words in my mouth and caused trouble between me and my husband. He’s in louisiana and stays gone for two weeks, comes home for a few days and leaves again for work. But I think he talks to her more than he does to me. Then when he was busy snaping my head off on the phone, he had threatened me with a divorce saying if I didn’t have a job by the end of spring that we was gonna get one. But he just wants to quit his job and live off of me. But I’m not sure how old the deer hunter is. Although he looks like he’s in his late 30’s or early 40’s and he ha blue eyes (I love blue eyes). He also seems sweet and outgoing. But my family wishes that me and my husband would get a divorce and so does his family cause his family don’t me either. But the hunter has a 5 year old little b oy and mine will be turning 7 in May and I also have a little girl that’s 5 but they don’t live with me.

Answer #11

Um…, I don’t know really cause my husband has cheated on me a couple or few times throughout our marriage and right now he’s been talking and flrting with another woman on the phone that he’s known for a long time (I think she’s an ex girllfriend) and the other day she had texted my husband and told him I was on him page and that I was asking her a bunch of questions which I didn’t do and she had put words in my mouth and caused trouble between me and my husband. He’s in louisiana and stays gone for two weeks, comes home for a few days and leaves again for work. But I think he talks to her more than he does to me. Then when he was busy snaping my head off on the phone, he had threatened me with a divorce saying if I didn’t have a job by the end of spring that we was gonna get one. But he just wants to quit his job and live off of me. But I’m not sure how old the deer hunter is. Although he looks like he’s in his late 30’s or early 40’s and he ha blue eyes (I love blue eyes). He also seems sweet and outgoing. But my family wishes that me and my husband would get a divorce and so does his family cause his family don’t me either. But the hunter has a 5 year old little b oy and mine will be turning 7 in May and I also have a little girl that’s 5 but they don’t live with me.

Answer #12

Um…, I don’t know really cause my husband has cheated on me a couple or few times throughout our marriage and right now he’s been talking and flrting with another woman on the phone that he’s known for a long time (I think she’s an ex girllfriend) and the other day she had texted my husband and told him I was on him page and that I was asking her a bunch of questions which I didn’t do and she had put words in my mouth and caused trouble between me and my husband. He’s in louisiana and stays gone for two weeks, comes home for a few days and leaves again for work. But I think he talks to her more than he does to me. Then when he was busy snaping my head off on the phone, he had threatened me with a divorce saying if I didn’t have a job by the end of spring that we was gonna get one. But he just wants to quit his job and live off of me. But I’m not sure how old the deer hunter is. Although he looks like he’s in his late 30’s or early 40’s and he ha blue eyes (I love blue eyes). He also seems sweet and outgoing. But my family wishes that me and my husband would get a divorce and so does his family cause his family don’t me either. But the hunter has a 5 year old little b oy and mine will be turning 7 in May and I also have a little girl that’s 5 but they don’t live with me.

Answer #13

Um…, I don’t know really cause my husband has cheated on me a couple or few times throughout our marriage and right now he’s been talking and flrting with another woman on the phone that he’s known for a long time (I think she’s an ex girllfriend) and the other day she had texted my husband and told him I was on him page and that I was asking her a bunch of questions which I didn’t do and she had put words in my mouth and caused trouble between me and my husband. He’s in louisiana and stays gone for two weeks, comes home for a few days and leaves again for work. But I think he talks to her more than he does to me. Then when he was busy snaping my head off on the phone, he had threatened me with a divorce saying if I didn’t have a job by the end of spring that we was gonna get one. But he just wants to quit his job and live off of me. But I’m not sure how old the deer hunter is. Although he looks like he’s in his late 30’s or early 40’s and he ha blue eyes (I love blue eyes). He also seems sweet and outgoing. But my family wishes that me and my husband would get a divorce and so does his family cause his family don’t me either. But the hunter has a 5 year old little b oy and mine will be turning 7 in May and I also have a little girl that’s 5 but they don’t live with me.

Answer #14

Um…, I don’t know really cause my husband has cheated on me a couple or few times throughout our marriage and right now he’s been talking and flrting with another woman on the phone that he’s known for a long time (I think she’s an ex girllfriend) and the other day she had texted my husband and told him I was on him page and that I was asking her a bunch of questions which I didn’t do and she had put words in my mouth and caused trouble between me and my husband. He’s in louisiana and stays gone for two weeks, comes home for a few days and leaves again for work. But I think he talks to her more than he does to me. Then when he was busy snaping my head off on the phone, he had threatened me with a divorce saying if I didn’t have a job by the end of spring that we was gonna get one. But he just wants to quit his job and live off of me. But I’m not sure how old the deer hunter is. Although he looks like he’s in his late 30’s or early 40’s and he ha blue eyes (I love blue eyes). He also seems sweet and outgoing. But my family wishes that me and my husband would get a divorce and so does his family cause his family don’t me either. But the hunter has a 5 year old little b oy and mine will be turning 7 in May and I also have a little girl that’s 5 but they don’t live with me.

Answer #15

Um…, I don’t know really cause my husband has cheated on me a couple or few times throughout our marriage and right now he’s been talking and flrting with another woman on the phone that he’s known for a long time (I think she’s an ex girllfriend) and the other day she had texted my husband and told him I was on him page and that I was asking her a bunch of questions which I didn’t do and she had put words in my mouth and caused trouble between me and my husband. He’s in louisiana and stays gone for two weeks, comes home for a few days and leaves again for work. But I think he talks to her more than he does to me. Then when he was busy snaping my head off on the phone, he had threatened me with a divorce saying if I didn’t have a job by the end of spring that we was gonna get one. But he just wants to quit his job and live off of me. But I’m not sure how old the deer hunter is. Although he looks like he’s in his late 30’s or early 40’s and he ha blue eyes (I love blue eyes). He also seems sweet and outgoing. But my family wishes that me and my husband would get a divorce and so does his family cause his family don’t me either. But the hunter has a 5 year old little b oy and mine will be turning 7 in May and I also have a little girl that’s 5 but they don’t live with me.

Answer #16

Um…, I don’t know really cause my husband has cheated on me a couple or few times throughout our marriage and right now he’s been talking and flrting with another woman on the phone that he’s known for a long time (I think she’s an ex girllfriend) and the other day she had texted my husband and told him I was on him page and that I was asking her a bunch of questions which I didn’t do and she had put words in my mouth and caused trouble between me and my husband. He’s in louisiana and stays gone for two weeks, comes home for a few days and leaves again for work. But I think he talks to her more than he does to me. Then when he was busy snaping my head off on the phone, he had threatened me with a divorce saying if I didn’t have a job by the end of spring that we was gonna get one. But he just wants to quit his job and live off of me. But I’m not sure how old the deer hunter is. Although he looks like he’s in his late 30’s or early 40’s and he ha blue eyes (I love blue eyes). He also seems sweet and outgoing. But my family wishes that me and my husband would get a divorce and so does his family cause his family don’t me either. But the hunter has a 5 year old little b oy and mine will be turning 7 in May and I also have a little girl that’s 5 but they don’t live with me.

Answer #17

Um…, I don’t know really cause my husband has cheated on me a couple or few times throughout our marriage and right now he’s been talking and flrting with another woman on the phone that he’s known for a long time (I think she’s an ex girllfriend) and the other day she had texted my husband and told him I was on him page and that I was asking her a bunch of questions which I didn’t do and she had put words in my mouth and caused trouble between me and my husband. He’s in louisiana and stays gone for two weeks, comes home for a few days and leaves again for work. But I think he talks to her more than he does to me. Then when he was busy snaping my head off on the phone, he had threatened me with a divorce saying if I didn’t have a job by the end of spring that we was gonna get one. But he just wants to quit his job and live off of me. But I’m not sure how old the deer hunter is. Although he looks like he’s in his late 30’s or early 40’s and he ha blue eyes (I love blue eyes). He also seems sweet and outgoing. But my family wishes that me and my husband would get a divorce and so does his family cause his family don’t me either. But the hunter has a 5 year old little b oy and mine will be turning 7 in May and I also have a little girl that’s 5 but they don’t live with me.

Answer #18

Um…, I don’t know really cause my husband has cheated on me a couple or few times throughout our marriage and right now he’s been talking and flrting with another woman on the phone that he’s known for a long time (I think she’s an ex girllfriend) and the other day she had texted my husband and told him I was on him page and that I was asking her a bunch of questions which I didn’t do and she had put words in my mouth and caused trouble between me and my husband. He’s in louisiana and stays gone for two weeks, comes home for a few days and leaves again for work. But I think he talks to her more than he does to me. Then when he was busy snaping my head off on the phone, he had threatened me with a divorce saying if I didn’t have a job by the end of spring that we was gonna get one. But he just wants to quit his job and live off of me. But I’m not sure how old the deer hunter is. Although he looks like he’s in his late 30’s or early 40’s and he ha blue eyes (I love blue eyes). He also seems sweet and outgoing. But my family wishes that me and my husband would get a divorce and so does his family cause his family don’t me either. But the hunter has a 5 year old little b oy and mine will be turning 7 in May and I also have a little girl that’s 5 but they don’t live with me.

Answer #19

Um…, I don’t know really cause my husband has cheated on me a couple or few times throughout our marriage and right now he’s been talking and flrting with another woman on the phone that he’s known for a long time (I think she’s an ex girllfriend) and the other day she had texted my husband and told him I was on him page and that I was asking her a bunch of questions which I didn’t do and she had put words in my mouth and caused trouble between me and my husband. He’s in louisiana and stays gone for two weeks, comes home for a few days and leaves again for work. But I think he talks to her more than he does to me. Then when he was busy snaping my head off on the phone, he had threatened me with a divorce saying if I didn’t have a job by the end of spring that we was gonna get one. But he just wants to quit his job and live off of me. But I’m not sure how old the deer hunter is. Although he looks like he’s in his late 30’s or early 40’s and he ha blue eyes (I love blue eyes). He also seems sweet and outgoing. But my family wishes that me and my husband would get a divorce and so does his family cause his family don’t me either. But the hunter has a 5 year old little b oy and mine will be turning 7 in May and I also have a little girl that’s 5 but they don’t live with me.

Answer #20

Sorry about that, I didn’t mean to post so many, lol! My computer was acting up.

Answer #21

It sounds like your bouncing from one not so good marriage and contimplating it based on whether you have a ready relationship to slip right into….BAD IDEA That rarely ever works out well because it’s going from one dependency looking for another. I can’t tell you if this other guy cares for real or is looking for easy pickings in a woman he senses to be in emotional turmoil. But you need to sort out you with your marriage first, then figure out who you are and start to form that person and life as an “I” before you decide to delve into and extended relationships. You need to get to know and analyze your invisible magnet of attraction which you can only know by learning about yourself first…Before searching for another partner. Otherwise you risk repeating the same mistakes.

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