It happened 2 dffrnt nights.. when exactly did he pop my cherry??

First things first…

1. I think your chery popped the first time, only he “pop” all of it, if you know what I mean. I’ve slept with my frist boyfriend, not feeling any pain even though he was my first, then with my second boyfriend the first time hurt quite a bit, because he was quite larger than my first one, I think it’s the same that’s happened here. Only with a finger first and then the real deal.

2. yes you can have sex without popping your chery, because it can “pop” on it’s own, due to sports (horseriding e.g.) and due to masturbating.

3. For christ’s sake people! Stop yabbing about “I hope you’re using some kind og birthcontrol” or “you shouldn’t even have sex in the first place” that’s NOT what’s she’s asking you about! Seriously! And about her not knowing much, I think that’s typical for americans, you don’t know anything when it comes to this kind of thing, at least not a lot of you do. We were taught this crap in 3rd-4th grade, our teacher litterally made us watch porn -_-‘ but whatever… stick to the subject!

when did you start to blead if he poped your cherry you would have started to blead. fingering doesnt usually break your cherry. it could happen. but the pain will be there anywheres from 3-9 days. my pain was there for about a week. but if you use tampons try not to. if the bleading is bad.. try to use a pad I no that might be grous. but its going to irritate it even more with something up there

Dats da thing.. I didn’t bleed.. I think I hv masturbated enough 4 me not 2 bleed when it was happenin.. Is that even possible? ..lol.. Sorry; I’m just trying 2 get my facts straight about all dis… But hold up.. Let’s take a step back real quick.. I’ve read a few othr Q&A’s and somewhere heard that you can hv intercourse and not hv your cherry popped.. Is that possible?… If it is tho, I don’t think it happened wit me even if I ddnt bleed because he was 8 inches.. Yupp yupp.. Lol.. Pls help again

Next time you decide to have sex, use a lubricany like K gel. As for his fingering “talents”, be sure and tell him not to be so rough, that gentle feels a lot better than rough does. I truly hope you are using some kind of birth control.