Are these mind games?

He may be 4 years old than you, but playing mind games is not being experienced in relationships. He seems to be keeping you at arms reach, just in case he doesnt find anyone else.

I’ve ready read your previous post about you finding a girls # in his cell, and when he left for the University, he cut back on his texts. Then told you he was seeing someone else. These are NOT signs of love. Especially from somebody you’ve been with for so long. He is most likely leaving his options open, and wants to see what else is out there. Actions ALWAYS speak louder than words!!! If he is telling you one thing, and showing you something else, chances are, hes not being honest. If he truly loved, and missed you, he would want to talk to you. Nothing would hold him back, but he has no need to call you, because you constantly call him. You need to give him some space. Make him want to miss you. No matter how much you call him, it isnt going to stop him from doing what he wants to do. If he leaves you, you cant blame yourself, because it wouldnt be something you did, or didnt do. HE is the problem. My advice, since I’ve been in a similar situation with an ex, is to let things happen on their own. You cant try, and hold something together if the other party isnt willing to do their part. If things are meant to be, you will be together in the end, but for now, dont call him so much. Let him come to you. If he truly means what he says, then he will show you. Its a waiting game, but dont put yourself out there, if hes not willing to do the same!