Is it okay if I dont want to have sex?

After posting my question to see if I was pregnant I’d not, I’ve been thinking SO much; that I’m never going to do something stupid like I did. I’m kinda afraid to have sex now. Just thinking about it makes me kindof sick.

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Answer #1

You shouldn’t have sex at all!! You should wait until your married. It is a sacred time to do that when your lawfuly wedded. People shouldn’t break that rule but, they do anyway. I have to give you credit that your not pregnant. One of my leaders in my church is worried about me having sex before marriage and, when I meet any guy, he would like for me to be strong and tell them no!! You need to do the same for any guy you meet or run into. Don’t let them talk you into sex since its a sin to do it before marriage. So, its okay not to do it. You need to relax, and have your mind think about clean and pure thoughts like, reading, watch decent TV shows, go to church, read scripture, go for walks, hang out with friends, and, do activities that are clean and productive. If you still feel the way you feel about having sex, I’d suggest speaking to your pastor in church if you go, and he’ll tell you that its wrong to do it before marriage. Your church might have simular beliefs to mine. So, please, stop making yourself sick over this and, try not to worry about it too much. God bless, and hope you take this advice.

Answer #2

It’s perfectly fine. You can wait a while before you start doing it again. No worries.

Answer #3

Its alright. My boyfriend and I are kind of worried too now. We understand. As long as you’re safe and effective, you shouldn’t worry but there is nothing wrong with that. You’re just stressed. It’ll fade.

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