is it ok to have a "crush" on a guy, and like a girl?

is it ok to have a “crush” on a guy? so hes an upperclassmen, hes kinda short, he has red hair and freckels… odly enough… I think hes hot! but I don’t want to feel this way!!! I like a girl! she liekd me! is it ok to just suddenly have feelings for this guy??? I’m really confused about who/ what I like…

Answer #1

Its fine to feel that way. You still don’t know what you want yet. just relax a bit. Maybe explain to your female friend you’d like to see what a relationship with a boy is like befor you commit to her. If she care about you that much she should understand.

Answer #2

it seems like your bi and its perfectly fine to feel that way its just like if you liked a girl then started likeing another girl just decide who you like more and go with that 1

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