is 21 too young to be pregnant???

is 21 too young to be pregnant? hi just found out im pregnant! don’t no if am to young for all this. I’ve been with my partner for 5yrs an we are happy an live with each other. but is it the right time???

Answer #1

Yea but you could be 20 somthing and not be able to raise a child cause I know a few that are 20 and 30 somthingand lost there kids cause the wasn’t able to raise them.. so if you think you can do it then go right a head..

Answer #2

21 is a more reasonable age then in your teens. I still find it strange though, in my opinion if people want children it should be in their late 20’s, but then again in you case I suppose it’s ok, since you’re in a stable relationship and can hopefully support yourself.

Answer #3

When ever you think its right to have a baby you have one who is going to stop you x

Answer #4

nooo, nooo fairytouch, im 19 and I have a 1 year old, if you love your partner enough to stay with through thick and thin then your perfect. 21 is a good age. and congratz on the preg. its amazing having a child.=] trust me I love my daughter to pieces. its a great feeling to be a mother at my age and at yours it will feel even better hope that helps ya

~afimonster*aka meranda

Answer #5

Well do you want to be 45 when you’re kid is 13? That’s the difference of my mom and me. I hate it. She’s too…Old timey… I’ve personally planned on having a baby at that age. So,no. You’re fine. It’s perfectly normal,really. Plenty of people have a baby at that age. Have fun!

Answer #6

It really doesn’t matter the age cause me and my boyfriend of 3 years had our child at 15 and we a doing great we live in our own house which we own we have jobs and our own cars and we are raising a child perfectly fine it dosent matter the age it all depends if you are mentally caple of rasing your child by the way we are 18 now. But congrats on you preg. Being a mom is the best feeling in the world…

Answer #7

Yea as long as you and your mate has a stable jod and home y’all be fine congrats by the way

Answer #8

ok thanks to all for answers. I am stable? I’ve workd from I was 13 an im still at it. an hes in a gd job to.

Answer #9

Its not so much about age but about money and mental stability.

Answer #10

if you plan on getting married can support yourself and have your life set then no

Answer #11

noo not at alll

Answer #12

I am 20 and My husband is 21 and we just found out were pregnant. He has a carreer in the coast guard now that pays enough and he is setting it up to latteral into the FBI in 4 years. Pregnancy is 100% covered by our insurance. We know we want kids one day and were mature enough to raise a child. We have been together for 4 years now, but it is still just so scarry. I have about 1.5 years left of college but I feel like I am almost ready to open up my own company and I am really ambitious when it comes to my carreer. We plan on buying a house in 1 year, so while yes we have most things planned out well it is just sooo scary. I feel like everyone is going to judge us and we live 2000 miles away from our family. We wanted to wait 4 years to have a baby. I am scarred to be attending college pregnant and I am scarred that I will be judged like one of the stoner girls from my home town that stayed back and got knocked up. Thats not me. Should I keep it? I am no more than 4 weeks along so I could just take a pill and make it all better but I feel like that is just bad karma. So many people want to get pregant so this should be something happy not a burdon. I am so scared, what should I do?

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