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Why are my in laws are ruining my marriage?

June 6, 2007 my father-in-law drank a lot. He told me that I was a bad parent and proceeded to say terrible thing about my mom. My husband was there and never bothered to stick up for me. His father was trying to turn him against me and I couldn’t belaeve it. I havent spoke to his family in well over a year. It has put a lot of stress on our relationship. Since that day the father has never apolgized to me and my husband continues to go there with my children. He never sticks up for me. I feel that he should of put them in there palce. do you have any advice for me.

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Answer #1

So, this happened only once?

Whether or not the man apologized, you need to start repairing the relationship with your in-laws if you want to hold onto your marriage. Have you ever talked to your father in law about this? It probably wouldn’t hurt to at least let him know that you were offended by his behaviour, and perhaps see if you can start fresh.

By expecting your husband to ‘stick up for you’ at this stage, you’re basically saying ‘I’m still mad and you have to choose between me and your family’.

You’re the one putting the stress on the relationship by holding this grudge. Let it go…

Answer #2

I know I have the same problem.. their parents started hating me when they went away on vacation and my girlfriend stayed alone in her house and well obviously I was going to go over and fuck the shit out of her on her parents bedroom thats what everybody does to get back at their in-laws. so we did it for about 5 hours since we both took extacy before fucking we had a blast we even used their her parents sex toys and my girlfriend let me watch their parent honeymoon video while she was taking a nap.. but what we didnt know is that they left hidden cameras all over the house to see if they could trust her daughter and me and well you get the picture.. (they really got pissed-off when I started busting on my girlfriend moms face on the porn video I was watching while my girlfriend was sleeping)we eventually broke it off it was just to akward to ever see my ex-girlfriend parents again I still see them once I a while since I live on the same street about 10 houses away its a big street. anyways man you can’t have it as bad as me!! peace www.HippieSmokeShop.com Free Samples of Legal Bud

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