in love with thw impossible

If you love someone, set them free….if they come back they are yours….if not, it was never meant to be. Now, to be brutally honest, from looking at your picture & seeing the screen name you’ve chosen for yourself plus the number of questions you seem to be posting about guys you are attracted to….you are kind of young to be making lifetime committment decisions. Hopefully you will continue with your schooling & grow into a well rounded young woman who values herself in her own right & not based on what a guy thinks of you. You have plenty of time….don’t be in such a hurry to find someone. While it’s fun to have someone to share things with, you need to learn exactly who you are & what you want from life before you commit to someone else. It’s not necessary to have a man in your life to be a complete person.

I’m just going to be blunt with you. MOVE ON AND FORGET HIM! It is OK to have a friendship with him but let it stop there. Life is too short and there are too many guys out there to worry about this one individual. As you have stated he tells you he DID love you. That should be enough to realize he has moved on and you should too. THERE ARE MORE FISH IN THE SEA go get one and let him realize what HE lost! GOOD LUCK!

I’m just going to be brutally honest when I say that you can’t change anybody, so you might as well stop trying. I’m sure you’re a very nice girl and you need to realize that there are plenty of guys out there who would love to have you. Don’t waste your life chasing around some ex that doesn’t want any more than a friendship anymore. Believe me, if he wanted you back, he would’ve said. It’s perfectly fine to keep a friendship with him, if that’s what you both want, but try not to spend to much time around him, it’ll just get you too attatched. Well, good luck, peace!