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Im so guilty what do I do?

Ok im in a very serious situation!!!there’s this boy (lets call him moses)who I have serious feelings 4.see when I first moved here(which was 8th grade we’re now in the 10th) he was my first & best friend, so when he asked me out I said no. But I only said no b/c I didnt want 2 get in the situation when we’d break up because I know we wouldnt last 4 ever! But I didnt give him a reason b/c I didnt think he would understand.but 2 make things worst after I turned him down I started avoiding him b/c I didnt want 2 leed him on! So while I was avoiding him I started likeing someone else & pretty much 4 got moses exsisted!!!the next year in 9th grade I still liked him but I was tlkin 2 someone else @ the time & I think he was pissed @ me 4 avioding him 4 so long( I don’t blame him) but on top of that the guy I was tlkin 2 eventually became my boyfriend & so moses was in band w/ my boyfriend & lets just say me & my boyfriend have sum history in the band room together that the entire band knows about…including moses. Soon me & my boyfriend broke up & I started tlkin to moses again…kinda not really tho. So now here we are in the 10th grade & I just cant get enough moses but im not sure if feels that way about me any more plus I think he like another girl too(another girl w/ the gayest name ever may I add) & he’s cumin back 2 school tomorrow (was suspended) & I don’t if I should keep trying 2 get w/ him or just leave him alone because I blew it & I don’t deserve him any mor. I really care 4 him & have a really strong really strange lust 4 him so that doesnt help much :( what do I do!!???

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Answer #1

uhmm…well some advice is remember the past, live in the present, fear not the future for it can always change. so what you did that got you in this situation you shouldnt feel guilty for but understand why your in this situation. lol pretty much just try to get with him, ask how he feels bout you when you see him tomorrow. dont worry about IF you guys were to break up in the future. you never know wats gonna happen until you try things out. best of luck.

Answer #2

well if it is lust, then leave him alone.

If you like him… well the only regret people should have in life is making the same mistake twice. So if you like him, then go for it. Love is a risk, you didn’t want to do it the first time, but now you do.

Look, there is no harm in telling him… but you must be prepared to accept what he says.

Answer #3

I odnt know if your jealous of the other girl or if you genuinely like him buh all I can say iis everyone deserves a second chance no matter what. so keep trying hun unless you see that he is happy with her then just be there for him as a friend. who knows he may end up asking you out agen

Answer #4

I think you need to sit down and have a nice talk with him. explain everything to him. put all your cards on the table. Then see how he feels. If he isn’t into you, well at least see if you can be friends still. Will be a bit awkward for a while, but if you are good friends things should pan out. long you wait the worse I think it will get.

Answer #5

I think you are just jealous of this new girl he likes honey! so maybe you just really liked him all along, your the only one that can really know the best choice for this tho, I would suggest just being friends but if you feel stronger about it go for it. my only warning is don’t do it just because of this other girl in the picture, or to make your ex jealous, because that will hurt everyone and you wont fill good about yourself. how to get him back, don’t try too hard, be discrete but flirt and hang out with him.

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