How can I get my boyfriend to keep a job?

im 3 months pregnant and my boyfriend wont get a job…everytime he tries…he ends up going for about a week, and then stops showing up and gets fired…now that im pregnant I cant deal with this anymore…but he keeps doing it…im the sole provider of him, me and now my unborn…and im only a waitress…although I make alright money, I cant provide for 3 people…we are so behind on all our bills, our hydro is about to go…I dont know what to do because he stays up all night, and sleeps in all day and everytime I tell him he has to get a job, he gets pissed off…and his excuse is I’ll figure something out…what should I do?

Answer #1

This is why you should have discussed his options BEFORE you got pregnant.

If you can’t support your baby, give him/her up for adoption. Then leave your boyfriend because he clearly isn’t half as responsible as he should be.

Answer #2

Hey,

Im not going to tell you what to do or tell you to leave. I just want to let you know that I totally understand what your going through. I don’t have a baby but I am going through something very similar. My boyfriend is the same way and he gets mad when I tell him anything. I feel so used and unappreciated. If we had a baby it would terrible I don’t know how you are ding it but I know you have to love him or else you woulnt be.

Answer #3

Hey,

Im not going to tell you what to do or tell you to leave. I just want to let you know that I totally understand what your going through. I don’t have a baby but I am going through something very similar. My boyfriend is the same way and he gets mad when I tell him anything. I feel so used and unappreciated. If we had a baby it would terrible I don’t know how you are ding it but I know you have to love him or else you woulnt be.

Answer #4

Sounds lyk a di(k , leave him. i can tell thi relationship aint gonna last!

U sed u dnt hav enuf money 4 3 ppl! wel u could hav enuf 4 2…u and the baby! Not thats looser!

Give him 1 lst chnce nd explain 2 him it’s his last!

Good Luck!

Funmail me woth your reply!

Charlotte__X

Answer #5

Tell him if he doesn’t get a jib you’ll leave him

every1 should get 3 chances tell him 3 times and tell him the chances he has left

do wots best for 2 ppl u and your child nt just bwots best for him

dt let a an rule your life

message me if u need more help x x x

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