Im getting blamed

My dad and my mom are divorced. So my dad got a girlfriend. She has6 kids and I became really good friends with 1 of them. Her name was codie. One day she introduced me to her best friend brian so me and brian became really close friends because we liked eachother. And so codie got jelouse so she told brian not to talk to anymore becuase I would try to get him into trouble which I wouldnt because I liked him!!! So brian knew that I wouldnt try to get him into trouble so we kept talkin to eachother anyway. Then codie found out and started to threaten us. So me and brian didnt talk 2 eachother 4 like 4 months and I was really sad. So my dad finnally found out why I was so sad and he got really mad at codie and broke up with her mom because me and my dad protect eachother so when im in pain hes in pain to. After he broke up with her mom codie and her mom got really mad and then codie started to make fun of my dad and its really really hard to make my dad cry but codie went to far and made him burst out in tears!!! It made me cry and brian cry because he hated to see me and my dad go threw this. Sooo now codie and codie’s mom are blaming me 4 makin my dad break up with her mom. What should I do??

Answer #1

I agree with colethky wholeheartedly! Your Dad is a great dad, he loves you so much, you means more to him than anything else in this world! The whole situation is totally not your fault in any way.

There’s nothing really you can do about Codie and her mom’s bullying now, but just be strong and support your Dad.

Answer #2

wow codie…wow! realy sorry for you! thats just horrible! I really dont know what to say! the best thing I can tell you is to go to a counsiler. :( ill pray for you!

Answer #3

First off it’s not your fault. Remember that always, repeat it all the time…say “it’s not my fault”. You said yourself that you and your father protect each other, if someone is hurting you then he should step in. That’s what parents do, they protect their children against anyone. Secondly, there is probably more to why your dad broke up with her. When he confronted his ex I’m sure that some not very nice things were said and he probably found out that she’s not a very nice lady.

Your dad did good, he protected you, that’s what’s important in life. Be thankful that you have a father that loves you that much, you are lucky. Remember, it’s not your fault, he probably already saw things in her that he didn’t like anyway.

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