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I was dumped, but still feeling hurt

I was staying in a women’s refuge about 16 years ago, alow point in my life,; I went to a night-club and met someone gorgeous. He did the chasing. He was very forceful (I would have given in eventually) and then he cruelly dumped me. He was callous afterwards after he got what he wanted.

Over the years , I have felt very hurt and tormented about this experience. I am stuck on him, and still have a strange yearning for him. How can I forget this nasty man? And also why are some men like this? Please can you answer this. Thankyou

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Sometimes it’s hard to let go of someone you truly did like. I think you still see the good in the guy, and not the side of the man who acted so hateful to you. He probably used all the charms in the book to get what he wanted and didn’t care weather he hurt you or not. Mostly the reason why some men and women alike are this way is because they live in what we call the “Fast lane” which they basically are just out to have a good time. And they will usually pull all the lines in the book to do it. I’m sorry for what is happened but in order to move on you’ll have to actually put effort into it. Go see other people, try to develop a loving relationship with them. That’s the best advice I can give you, thanks for sharing with me. :) Keep your chin up, always.

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