I want to find my real father

Jeepers! Don’t listen to Bimjob. You look for your father! You have that right! Your birth father is a part of WHO YOU ARE! He is still a part of your identity. You have the natural pure desire to know the other part of who created you. There is a story to every side and you need to give your brirth father the benefit of the doubt.
I didn’t know my father my wole entire life until I found him 2 years before he passed away. I had always wondered about him, what he looked like, how he acted, instead of wondering if the stranger standing next to me in a grocery store could have been my father. Children have to know for themselves and not have the selfishness of the parent involved from keeping them form knowing that person. The child needs closure and you can decide for yourself, “instead of someone else making the decision for you” to keep the two of you apart. You can decide if you want to continue a relationship with your biological father or not, that’s your right. Your mom loves you and she and your step dad should be understanding of this desire that you have and help. If you know his full name, date of birth and approximately where you may think he may live, such as a city and state ,you may be able to find him in the yahoo people search. That is how I found mine. I’m glad I found my father, we kept in touch after we had met and I know he loves me now and I feel some kind of fullfilment in finding him before he died.