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What if I change my mind about having a relationship?

This guy and I have been good friends for a year now. when we first started talking he liked me and said I was easy to talk too and really liked being and talking with me and wanted a relationship, but I said no, I like the way things are with us being just friends and we can see other people too, so now a year goes by and we are like best friends. we know almost everything about eachother. well we go out to parties and bars a lot. well at parties he talks to girls and you know.. but I didnt mind at first because we were just friends and afterwards we would go home and he would tell me about the girls and his night and I would do the same. It started about a month ago I started getting a little jealous when I saw him talking to these girls but I used to not be jealous at all!! what is wrong with me! ahh. Well now I realize I kinda really like him and want a relationship with him now. I feel so stupid though because I told him I didnt want a relationship back than and now I wish I had. please help, what should I do?

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girl you did exactly what you was suppose to do wait until you was ready to go out with him so now that you’ve done that just let your bestfriend no how you feel about you two now in it should work out if he feels the same way

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