I regret letting my boyfriend eat me out, is he grossed out by me now?

So last night my boyfriend told me that he wanted to eat me out, and I was like I don’t know… about it because I didn’t want him to be grossed out by me, and I’m really shy about down there because I’m a virgin. So we made out for a while, and then I gave him head (I swallowed and everything). I really don’t like the taste but I do it because I know he loves it. Then he asked me again if I wanted him to eat me out, and I said are you sure? are you really sure? like so many times. He kept saying yes so I finally let him. It felt amazing but after a little bit he said Can I stop? I told him yes but in my mind I was freaking out. I mean was it that bad? I was clean and everything. I was so embarrassed, and I still am. He didn’t act weird afterward or anything, he still kept talking about how hot and beautiful he thinks I am, but omg. Now I feel disgusting, and plus deep down it feels kind of unfair that I went down on him for a long time but he stopped after a few minutes. Ugh but I feel so gross. I haven’t been able to talk to him yet today because he’s at work. What should I do?

Answer #1

that was really good advice! I would trust him :)

Answer #2

Your right it’s unfair. But He did try which is good of him. I’m sure he does think your beautiful and I know he doesn’t think your gross:) My advice is to ask him. ask why he stopped and he says he just got bored, cause thats probably it:) lol. (we do have short attention spans) Than just tell him that you like it and next time you’d like him to go first then you’ll give him head:) if he says he didn’t like it tell him that you pleasure him cause he likes it and you just want something in return:) don’t make it a fight just a talk:)

Answer #3

Sex is not a tit for tat situation. You have been doing him because you know he likes it. This was his first try and yes he may have expected more reaction from you.

After enough time of him learning from you just what to do, you’ll be headed in this direction!

My goodness, ask him, beg him, tease him, seduce him, As a male I can’t get my spouse to let me down there enough. She has orgasm 100% of the time and the taste of her juices is pure heaven, 50-80 percent of the time she wants to be mounted after and she is so wet and open she is begging for a load to fill her.

Answer #4

i agree with theta010 and although im sure your past this problem (as you posted it 12 months ago) ill give my advice anyways….maybe he was self conscious because you didnt seem too into it (you kept asking are you sure?) next time be more enthusiastic, and when he does start be encouraging. when you really like one thing he does say so like “oh thats so nice keep doing that” and “please dont stop” and let yourself come. itll make you feel good and HIM too. whenever i make my bf come from head i always mentally think “gold star for me!” and im sure he feels the same way

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