How to handle my Mom's horrible boyfriend?

if they are having problems just be there with your mom because if her boyfriend yells at her he might hit her so defend your mom and always remember your mom is always with you so be with her and if you have to leave at night with your mom and if he comes after you tell the cops!!!

I have been in the same situation but my mom’s boyfriend hits her and I get scare what should I do

There isn’t a lot you can do for someone who won’t help themself. It’s hard to accept that, especially with your mother. I’ve been in the same kind of situation, my mom always has some new sh*tty boyfriend. It always messes with me, but there isn’t anything I’ve figured out that you can do. As far as money goes, the highest paying jobs at your age are lifeguarding, starbucks, waiter, and I dont really know what else. I was a life guard for a while, YMCA’s usually pay pretty well. If you want to be able to stand up for yourself just don’t get angry when they say things. It will only make them more willing to continue. Don’t get angry or upset or emotional in anything but a positive way. Act like you’re just fine with it. Don’t try to act cool though, because you’ll end up looking like an a$$. Once you’re out of your house you’ll do just fine though. Everything kind of falls into place after you’re out, especially if you’re going to college. Your house probably just has too much negative energy, it’s hard to function properly with that.

Dear an0therday, You need to speak with a relative…trusted aunt, uncle etc. Explain to them what is happening in your home. Tell them how this man is treating your mother. You should not be getting involved at home with telling her not to see him. Your mother is suffering from low self-esteem and needs some counselling. You also should speak with your school counsellor about what you are experiencing as well. Your mother is already hurting so don’t run off and hurt her more but talk with a counsellor and they can give you some coping skills. Sue…good luck