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What advice to I give to this girl?

im usually really really good at giving advice.. but this time.. im stuck.. please help…

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im having issues with that boy again. I thought things were okay. but I tried texting him the other night and his new girlfriend texted me back, and it set something off inside of me and I started b*hing to caleb all night. then we started argueing about it last night, and how I cant control my emotions and that im driving him to the point of wanting to block my number and he’s worn out of caring about me and everything else. but then he was talking me down to the point where I realized I hated how I was, and how I cant stand living with myself because im so emotional about everything. and I end up screwing things up even more because of it. and I spend nights crying myself to sleep. im just tired of all of it. I wish it would all just stop.

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Answer #1

I know the situtation shes in. its nothing she’ll hurt herself over im sure. but if anything in your gut thinks she might then be smart about it and talk 2 her or tell her parents. but really I dont think thats a problem. shes just really emotional– she said it herself. did she have a past relationship with this boy? because he has a new girlfriend she should realize that he has no intention of having a realtionship with her. maybe he cared about her at one point but she probably intimidates him too much. the only advice you can give is to just tell her she NEEDS to control her emotions if she wants to stop pushing her friend away. she needs to have respect for her friend (even if she doest like his new girlfriend) she realizes how emotional she gets and it scares her just tell her she should just ignore this kid for a little while it’ll be really hard at first but once she’s done it once it’ll be A LOT easier the next time

Answer #2

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Answer #3

Dear deitz69, Without knowing much here…are you afraid she will try to hurt herself? If this is what you are thinking then you need to go to her parents ASAP. Speak with them about this and talk with this girl to see if this is her intent. If she is then her parents must take her to a doctor or the hospital right away. If you don’t think she will resort to that maybe she is just being overly emotional right now but these feelings will pass. We all make mistakes but that is how we learn. Tell her that she is a good person that this one incident was her time to learn more about herself. That she is a caring and passionate person and we need more people like her…she just has to learn to take control of her feelings and that anyone would be glad to have her as a friend etc. etc. Sue…good luck

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