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Well one of my friends offered me to live with him…He’s about 19 turning 20. Is it illegal for me to move in with him? Im only 14…but hes really a good friend and hes getting a job…hes in his uncle’s will for money and a car, hes selling a car, hes getting money for sure. I dont think im going to move in when im 14 but around 15, 16, the latest, because he has to leave for awhile but when he gets back he wants me to be with him…I mean live with him.whatever. He can support me and by the time I do, I will have my own job, and can kinda support myself, but with his help. We love each other… and I do want to live with him… and get away from my mom and great-grandmother. But I dont want to leave illegaly!lol. So would it be around these ages? P.S. He’s leaving in a week…so it most likely will be 15 or 16…just in case…please tell me about 14 also. Tink ya soo very much. xx

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Answer #1

Hes not my boyfriend. Hes just a friend.

Answer #2

Oh my, A 14 year old living with a 20year old? That MUST be illegal somewhere. Plus you cannot legally moveout/runaway until you are 18. I think this is a horrible idea. He probably wants “something else” from you. To answer your question no you cannot move in with him unless your mom is okay with it.

Answer #3

trust me, I know how you feel, I would love to move out of here and go live with my boyfriend… but I can’t and you can’t without parental consent… I’m 16 and I would still need my parents permission… now if you’re mom were to kick you out and just not care, that would be different… but you can’t just leave on your own… if you really want to get away from your mother you could try getting emancipated, but it’s really tough to do… you need money, and if your home isn’t unsafe for you then you’re pretty much out of luck… but anyway… just try to hang in there until you are 18 and then you can live wherever you want… good luck… by the way, if this 20 year old guy is your boyfriend, that is also illegal…

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