Should I go out with him if I like someone else?

I’ve liked this guy I work with for almost 1/2 a year now, but I know nothing is ever going to happen between us (I’m 16 he’s 30). I know it’s kinda stupid to like him, but I can’t help it. He’s pretty much amazing.

Another guy (Matt) asked me out yesterday, and I like him too. But I feel bad because I can’t get over the guy I work with that easily- and I wouldn’t want to still think about him while I was with Matt.

Should I go out with Matt and just try to forget about the other guy? Or should I wait until I can get over him to go out with Matt? Help please :(

Answer #1

no one can tell you what to do… but I will tell you to follow your heart.

Answer #2

what do you want to do? it seems like you like the older guy and if you do go for it your a girl you can do what the f*ck you want (almost anything lol). :P

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