How can I be pretty for once in my life?

well let me start off by saying I have never had a boyfriend(not counting losers who ask me out…I’m so ugly you have to be dared to ask me out) anyway I’m black and I like white guys which makes another promblem sooo I’m so lost… I have no promblem making friends but I want more than that… I know I know I’m too young for dating and the guy who really loves me will find me in the end but I want experience I don’t want to be the ugly duckling who stays ugly forever…besides my glasses,lips,hair,pimples,bumps I think I might look ok tho…I really want to look pretty for once in my life…can you help me?

                                                                                    a 13 year old freak
Answer #1

u nee too b more confident like b less negative about your looks.. if ya REALLY want tooo you cud wear makeup… you can go to like macys or sumwhere and they can “make you over”

Answer #2

OH MY GOD U SOUND JUST LIKE ME!except the ugly part tho im sure ur not ugly either dress it up flip it down currrrrl ya hair and pop some ear ring’s on BUT dont act weird be your self.BUT CUTE.

Answer #3

smile. style your hair to match the shape of your face be friendly, but not obnoxiously so be clean and showered and smell good, but not overpowering wear clothes to match you complexion and body shape be a friend practice good posture practice good english avoid cussing

Answer #4

well, no one is ugly. but dont go looking for no one, let love come to you. if you dont like your glasses, get contacts. if you got bumps, get proactive, make your hair cute, put on lip gloss. anyone can fix themselves up if they work hard enough.

Answer #5

the best thing a girl can have is a SMILE! SMILE more often and keep it that way. Plus beauty isnt only physical its also emotional. personality comes first and for all your little things you call “problems:” well its normal but noone is ugly. dont waste your time on a make over. be urself and smile around you will grow out of your “ugliness”

Answer #6

girl i beleve that ever one is beautiful, no matter how they are!!!!you just need to love you’r self more, find thing’s you love about you’r self, you know, and it sound’s like to me people are getin to you, dont let no one get to you girl hold you’r head up high!!!and dont care bout what the other’s say!!!!!

Answer #7

the only thing ugly about you is your lack of self confidence… I don’t think I am technically pretty, but I am confident. That to a guy is the most sexy thing, I have seen girls that are very pretty but guys won’t have anything to do with them because they put them selves down all the time, ( or they just use them and toss them to the side). Guys are attracted to a girl that believes in her self, a girl who knows they have something that no one else has, and that guy would be so lucky to be able to have you as a part of their life… JUST BE CONFIDENT, CARRY YOUR HEAD HIGH AND WALK LIKE YOU MEAN IT!

Answer #8

I would be curious of a photo on you. And if you are ugly at 13 yo you may be beautiful at 20 yo. I have seen a lot of such a changes.

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