Why is he using me like this?

Ok so theres this guy that I like and his nice to me but only in computers we talk on msn, in computers or before rollcall but whenever his friends are around I’m like no-one, and he always asks me for money and food and stuff and I feel like he is using me and I tried to be angry at him once but he does this really stupid annoyingly cute face and I always forgive him. I’ve tried to forget about him but I just cant get him out of my head!

Answer #1

He is using you hun, because you allow him to! We teach people how to treat us, and by you giving him what he wants, he is going to continue to take advantage of your generosity! You need to stand up to him, and let him know that you arent his free lunch everyday. Let him know that if he wants to talk to you, without asking for something, then you will, otherwise your just going to ignore him!

Answer #2

He sounds really immature and completely not worth the time. I hate when you can talk to someone on the computer and they’re perfectly nice, and then act different when you see them in person. The bottom line is this; you deserve someone who will be nice to you in any situation, and this guy isn’t cutting it. It won’t be the easiest thing in the world, but forget about him!!! You’ll be glad you did.

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