I just dont know anymore!

I am going out with a boy for a while now, at first I knew I really liked him, when im with him im happy. but away I keep thinking about the way things are going, if it right for me. we’ve made out but it doesnt appeal to me anymore is that normal? I try normal kissing but then he thinks im trying to be distant so I make out with him, but I just dont know if hes the one anymore. I feel my emotions are all over the place, theres a guy in my school that I think I like but I dont know. I know it wrong considering I have a boyfriend. I havent had the best record for boyfriends the longest relation ship I had was a month and I was pratically single in that relationship. can someone PLEASE help me??

Answer #1

don’t be affriad to be single. If you are not happy in any relationship and you are even questioning it then Yes it is time to take a couple steps back and figure out what is going on. I think listening to your instinct is one of the best things a women has working for us. Most of the time a women will listen with her heart instead of her gut. And that is what gets us in trouble. We need to balance out the both of them and do what is right for us. You will figure it out.

Answer #2

Have a think to yourself whether you are happy in this relationship. Does he make you happy? Are you happy with this person? Think to yourself, Could you carry on being in this relationship for another month? Do what makes YOU happy. If being with him isn’t making you happy then I would call it a day.

I go through these days where my emotions are all over the place and I’m doubting my relationship and if it’s going anywhere but I soon realise that I’m happy with it and couldn’t be without my boyfriend. So just have a good long think about this.

Write up the Pros and Cons about your relationship and see where that takes you.

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