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What should I do about my feelings for a married coworker?

ME AND MY COWORKER HAVE BECOME VERY CLOSE AND WE STARTED SEEING EACH OTHER ON AND OFF WORK AS MUCH AS WE COULD. HE IS MARRIED AND IT TOOK HIM A LONG TIME TO ENTER INTO A SEXUAL RELATIONSHIP WITH ME. HE ALWAYS TELLS ME HE FEELS GUILTY AND ENDS IT, BUT SOMEHOW WE END UP BACK TOGHETHER, OUR CHEMISTRY AND ATTRACTION IS TOO STRONG. I FEEL LIKE HE IS NOT HAPPY AT HOME, BECAUSE HE ALWAYS TELLS ME HE DRINKS WHEN HE GETS HOME AND HIS WIFE IS NOT WORKING SO HE IS THE MAIN SUPPORTER. I FEEL LIKE HIS WIFE AND HIM ARE NOT COMPATIBLE AND ME AND HIM HAVE SO MUCH IN COMMON AND WE BELONG WITH EACH OTHER. I JUST QUIT MY JOB BECAUSE I COULD NOT HANDLE BEING AROUND HIM AND NOT BEING WITH HIM, NOW I MISS HIM LIKE CRAZY AND DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO. HE TOLD ME TO CALL HIM AND STILL WANTS TO SEE ME, I DONT KNOW WHAT WILL HAPPEN. WAS I JUST FOOLING MYSELF? WILL ANYTHING COME OUT OF IT?

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Answer #1

Oh honey, don’t you worry. That alcoholic, lying, adulterer will one day realize how ridiculous it is to be a man who provides for his FAMILY when he could just abandon them so he can lay around and F you carefree all day long. Then you’ll be truly happy cause the awesome, wonderful example of manly maturity finally found it’s way in your arms. Don’t forget to get a job quick–he ain’t gonna be providin’ for no woman– and pick him up his Jack Daniel’s on the way home. Then you two will have all that you both deserve in this world.

Answer #2

Some boundries you just dont cross, and this is one of them!! Married men RARELY leave their spouses! Your just the girl on the side! If he thought anything more of your affair than just sex…he would have divorced his wife already! You cant say that you and him are more compatible for each other than him and his wife are, because that is just YOUR opinion. Thats what you wanna believe, but in reality he doesnt plan on leaving his wife anytime soon. You need to tell him your not going to be his mistress any longer, and move on. Try and find someone whos single!!

Answer #3

maybe his wife is a ugly slob and will take all his money if he leaves.

Has he told you he loves you?

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