Can I expect a man to fill my lonliness?

I feel very lonley in my relashionship. its been five years since we met. At first it was great to have “space” now that same space feels like an empty hole. I want to have more time together. He says im negative and im not happy with what I have.

He is more concearn about having time to “do his own thing” than to be here for me, because he thinks Ill anyway “never have enough”.

The confusing part is that we also (not always) have a good time together. But mostly I am bitter because I feel unfullfilled.

can I accpect a man to fullfill this emplyness/lonleyness I feel?

I have friends and a very nice job to help me from sitting around and waiting for him, so I dont think that the problem.

Id relly appreciate any kind of advice or shared accperiance.

Answer #1

I know you may not like my advice but unless he can step it up and be the man he’s suppost to be then dump him and find somone ho can be a real man. A real man is a man who keeps his woman happy, woman need love, cuddles, kisses, and time spend with them. If he’s so caught up in his time.. then if your gone, would he miss you? Do you feel happier thinking about being with someone else or just leaving in general? Anytime my boyfriend ( this has only happened a few times ) has left me feeling down I tell him and he makes me feel all better and everything is alright again. If you can still yourself happy with someone else then dont worry about the hurt break up. Remember “If you love somthing set it free and if it comes back it’s yours” So if you break up and he comes back saying he needs/wants you back then there is your sign that he is yours. I would tell him to shappen up before he looses me. You are your own person and you deseve what makes you happiess.

Men are not being men today. Anyone who reads this.. PUT DOWN the LAPTOP REMOTE, GET OUT OF THAT CHAIR, and GO MAKE THAT PERSON IN YOUR LIKE THAT YOU SAY IS “SPECIAL” TO YOU FEEL SPECIAL BECAUSE YOU NEVER KNOW WHAT YOU GOT TILL IT’S GONE!

God Bless and Good Luck Erin

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