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I dont know how to feel. help.

ok so, im the kind of guy that hasnt had many relationships. I’m the “nice guy” that always finishes last. but in the last few months I’ve met a girl who means the world to me. But we cant be together right now, I can only see her every once in a blue moon and she has plenty of guy friends that openly like her as well. We talk on the phone all the time and she says im the love of her life. but she just got out of a long relationship and the guy hurt her bad, she is over him but doesnt feel like she can just give herself to someone right now. she says she wants me but she cant handle that valuble of a relationship right now. so she might date this other guy, because she says its so casuale tha she feels like being with him will allow her to open up again and let someone that really matters like me in. I dont know how to feel about it.. I know she loves me, and I understand her not wanting something so seriouse right now, but how can I sit here and be cool with her dating another guy? should I do something crazy to show her I care, should I let her do her thing and hope she comes back to me, or what ? any advice would be great, if any of it sounds confusing just let me know.

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Answer #1

I’ve been played to many times to count… she has nothing to play me for. she has never wanted anything out of me but my love, wont even let me spend money on her. thats a big reason as to why im so confused. and dont know how to handle it..

thanks for the advice.

Answer #2

If you really love her, I would wait for her then. Let her do what she thinks she has to do. Be there for her and let her know that you are willing to wait!

Answer #3

I used to just like you and I dont want to hurt you but it sound to me ‘like she wants to see how it works out with the other guy and have you as the backup if it doesnt I hope I am wrong but ihave been downt that street before but trust me there are gir’ls looking for the nice guy just ask my lady good luck

Answer #4

thank you.

Answer #5

I’ve thought the same thing, and I’ve been there so many times myself, I’ve got the damn t-shirt. but her eyes say more, like if I didnt bring up the fact that we havent said “We are together” then you wouldnt even be able to notice. I dont know poeple… she is a rare one. just wish I could know whats going on in her mind

Answer #6

Gosh that’s a tough one. If I was in that position with a guy I’d be pretty upset. Why would he need to go date someone else before he gets to me? I wouldn’t do anything crazy to show her that you care because I’m sure she knows. I don’t know if this girl is playing you or if she really means what she says. I would give her space and let her do her thing and hope that she meant what she said. If she doesn’t then obviously she didn’t care for you like you thought.

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