Am I a bad person for believing a rumor?

Dear prettygurly21, Since you’re about to start college then I am assuming you are at least 18…this is an age where and a time in your life that you will have to start being a little less gullible and more self-confident. What a wonderful way to start with when you see him walk up to him and ask him, remember when you gave me a box of chocolates for V-day…that was very sweat and it touched my heart I just wanted to thank you. I believe from there you will have a great conversation with him and perhaps get the answers you’re looking for. You both are older and will have a more mature conversation. Sue…good luck

this kinda stuff happens all the time, so i wouldn’t be too hard on yourself. and from personal experiance, rumors aren’t always true- so it’s not good to jump to conclusions, but in the same breath, something usually happens to cause a rumor to start. so, i guess my advice is to not beat yourself up about it, and if you really feel bad, just confront him about it. h ope i helped and good luck! :]

Even though you werent talking all that much to him after you heard those rumors, he didnt have to blow you off so quickly. I have learned that if one person says something about someone, i might tend to push it aside, and wanna see for myself, but when more people say the same thing, chances are its true! He sure didnt waste anytime moving onto another girl! Players tend to do that. You have nothing to feel guilty about. If he cared for you in the least, he would have tried harder to communicate with you.