I am 13yrs. Old and my boyfriend wants to finger him and I am a virgi

I am 13yrs. Old and my boyfriend wants to finger him and I am a virgin but he isn’t how should I prepare for it

Answer #1

wait as long as you possibly can sweetie! if he is any real boyfriend, which I dont expect him to be at your age, he will wait until you are actually ready. if you were ready, you wouldnt have to ask that question. fingering is foreplay, it is almost certain that will lead to having sex, and if he has been with other people, do you even know if he is clean. my first time was a year after me and the guy had been dating. we were together 6 years. we made sure we loved eachother before we did anything inside the clothing. there are other ways to fullfill happieness…if he wont wait, hes not worth it baby girl! you are young…enjoy all the other aspects of life, dont get yourself work up about sex just yet!

Answer #2

im 18 and my boyfriend and I are both virgins. we have been going out for about 2 months and have agreed we want to wait. He wants to do…other things…and im not ready for that yet. we talked and he understands and is willing to wait. I think you are too young but im not going to tell you what to do. just make sure that YOU are comfortable and are no just trying to please him. find a guy you really work with and is willing to wait for you. then you know that he’s a keeper

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