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How to stop trying to fix people?

So I have this weird obsession with people and their problems like when something comes on tv about fat people or bulimic or depressed people I have to watch it it just fascinates me lol its not like some weird weird obsession lol I just like hearing about ppls problems and helping them fix it. so me and my friends figured that im a fixer like I date losers just because I want to fix them and I believe im like this cause I had so many issues when I was younger and got thru them so I want to help others thru their problems which is one reason im going to becom a therapist. but its really annoying cause I want to be in a healthy relationship and not be so atracted to messed up people so How Can I Try To Stop Wanting To Fix People?

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try a hobbie like hun im a guy and I put people before me like im into this chick and I told her ill stay away from her for a week cuzz I guy was trying 2 date her and he was really into her but try skateing sports or hanging with your friends and try 2 be wit a person with some smarts and thats sweet theres always that diamond in the pile of coal

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