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How to pick between two great girls?

alright, so here’s the deal, there’s this girl named taylor that I’m pretty sure I love, but she’s one of those girls that doesn’t usually stay with one guy, you know? but I want to give her a chance because I really do like her. but then there’s this amazing girl named ashley that I really like, but she sends me mixed signals… and I dunno if she likes me. they are friends, so if I pick, I lose the other one. any ideas or ways for me to figure it out? thnx. BTW I’m 16, my names Myk.

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Answer #1

Who says you’re going to lose one or the other?

Girls send mixed signals ALL the time. Sometimes, if they like a guy, they’ll also try to keep is cool if they’re not sure how he feels. So she might flirt one day and then be buddy-buddy the next day because she doesn’t want to scare you off. That’s not a guarantee that she likes you though, that’s just one theory.

As for Taylor, do you mean she’s promiscuous and cheats on guys? Or does she just have a diff boyfriend every month? Maybe she just hasn’t met a guy she really likes yet. Maybe that will be you. If you think she’s a cheater, you could try to give her the benefit of the doubt, but if you don’t trust her in the first place, the relationship is already doomed.

Either way, if you pick a girl, there’s no rule saying you can’t stay friends with the other. If the relationship gets serious, then it would be difficult to date an ex’s friend, but if you date for a couple weeks and decide it’s not right, it’s not the worst thing in the world to ask out someone you knew before you dated your ex. Just make sure you wait a while before asking out the other. That would just look bad.

Don’t know if that helped at all. Just sharing my thoughts.

Good luck!

Answer #2

alright thanks, and alysher, she doesn’t quite cheat on guys, she just doesn’t usually DATE guys, if you know what I mean, she just has a lot of guy friends, but she doesn’t necisarily do anything with them… it’s complex. thanks for the advice

Answer #3

they don’t use this site, I’m safe lol

Answer #4

what if they both read this lol next time dont be so discritive lol

Answer #5

never leave the one you love over the one you like

Answer #6

You’re pretty sure you love her. Then you don’t. You shouldn’t have to question wheather or not you love someone. That’s a sign that something’s wrong in the relationship. And if I were a guy, I would pick Ashley. Taylor runs around with a lot iof guys and I would think that in THAT relationship, you wouldn’t be able to trust her not to cheat.

Answer #7

im in the same sorta predicament lol… except there’s three girls and my original plan was just to flirt and be friends… ha, yea right huh.. one has a boyfriend and isn’t even sure if she’s breaking up with him, one says she doesnt like me but her friend says otherwise, and the other, I’ve known since I was a kid and she’s moving out to where I live this summer… I’d much rather your position lol… im so damn confused!!!

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