Am 20 and hes 29, we met on the internet, a year and half ago, on the first date, he took me to his house, he tried to have sex with me but I refused, he then took me to the beach and then the restaurant to eat.he then dropped me off home, the second date he took me to his house, we watch a movie and he tried to have sex with me again and I said no, cause am still a virgin and that am not ready.. On the 3rd date he tried the same thing, I still said no, then he said am wasting his time so I shouldnt call him again, I said ok, he didnt even bother to see me off, so I left and I didnt call him like he asked and after a month and half , he called me again acting like nothing has happend, and he wanna see me and all that I realised I like him, even after everything he keeps doing, he smokes weed too, he been smoking for 10years and I think its part of the reason why he acts the way he does, lately, he seems to have changed, he calls me like every day, night, and we talk for like hours, he tells me his problems, he shares his weaknesses with me, and advice me and help me with my school works... He stopped asking me for sex, and says hes gon do what makes me happy.. I want to know if he really changed, he really likes me ? Or is still after sex? Please help me and desperate to know, before I lose ma virginity to the wrong guy
if he any any intention of making a relationship work when he first met you the last thing on his mind would have been sex?
he said 'im wasting my time' and didnt call you for 6 weeks..
I know what ricki lake would say, 'kick him to the kerb!'
all our personalities change when we want summet... with mates we were 1 thing then as soon as pocket money days came we were somone else to make sure our parents gave it to us...
remember: if theres any doubt, then theres no doubt at all... dont waste your time ;)
that tricky because I may have changed but I doubt it men all after sex I believe don't give urself to anyone unless you know for a fact that they love you for you and it doesnt sound like he does get to know him longer keep him waitin for it for liek a year if you know that he is really there for you and not what is between your legs and get to know his family and things like that that is how you know he is serious get comfortable with him 100%
u know what im your age ummm I met the love of my life a year ago really soon and well him and I have been together for 7 months now all he wanted from me is sex I was just going to be a fling with him and now were ... were one hell of a couple and sorry he is 26 so I was in the same boat ... if you feel wrong about the idea and he doesnt respect that hes not the one for you but you never know right ?
The dude smokes weed...find a better choice.
that's all he wants be carefull,
