how to get over a guy you're still with?

if he were to kill himself he would have done it already…for real a lot of guys have done this before..you cant keep hurting yourself all your life.

wow though your describing my situation completely..my boyfriend seems better off without me too and I’ve tried to break up with him because I hardly see him because I lost my car for a bit and man I would walk to see him and he is a lazy B* and wont for me…his house isnt close either. He doesnt support me I only him. He has a terrible family and I think that contributes to his anger problem also, and today you know what I did? I told him I cheated on him when I was in college, because I need him to break up with me if I were to go on with life feeling myself and not so upset. He is also leaving for the army in a few months also…he wants me to wait but hell im not. Friends yes maybe when he comes back he will be somewhat changed. But he is killing me the more he doesnt call and I dont want to call because he’ll just say “why do you call just to argue?” BUT he just doesnt want to talk about anything because you know ill get over it cause he knows I love him and I dont want to keep arguing either…aha yeaaa

I did cheat on him when I was in college…he did also when I was in college…and he has before I went to college and I never did anything but that one time..and I bet he doesnt even believe me thinking im just saying it cause im mad…Thats how good I am to him…he doesnt believe I would ever do anything to him..WELL I DID AND I TOLD HIM

its really hard and you cant go on like this anymore a year and half of passion and hurt with this guy and now it seems like everything is on my shoulders and when I need him I know he wont be there for me like I want him to be… Be strong and honest with yourself. Thats all you can do and get out of the house…its tough for me cause I kinda live a little far from the city like 3 miles but im not walking then walk more to get into the middle of the nasty city. Just gotta wait till my cars fixed on monday…sweet jesus… Im having a terrible time but I know I need to do this for myself, and think of yourself because this entire time he has been thinking of himself…now its your turn to do the same.