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How can I get the woman of my dreams back?

how can i get the woman of my dreams back??? we have been together for almost 5 years and we have a beautiful little boy who is almost 2. a couple years back, she cheated on me, i cheated on her also, then she did again, but she just recently found out about what i did years ago….. but those werent the reasons for all our troubles. she say she was unhappy with the relationship for a while. now i know everyone has their problems, but i would do anything to get her back. i have tried every angle, and im getting nowhere. we have been broken up for about 2 weeks. im near giving up because im convinced that this is the final decisions…. is there any way you can help me? please?

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Answer #1

Dear saykally, Both of you cheated in the relationship…this is a symptom of something gone wrong. There was trouble before the cheating and those problems weren’t dealt with. So the problems are still there. Because there is a child involved and you have been together for 5 making this relationship work would be a great thing but you can’t do it alone. You both need to get into counselling ASAP. Counselling alone then marriage counselling would be beneficial for everyone. Perhaps you can speak with her about doing this. If she refuses there is nothing you can do but get the counselling for yourself and this way you’ll have better understanding of what happened. Sue…good luck

Answer #2

Communication and trust is key in any successful relationship. Talk to her. If you truly love this woman more than anything, you have to prove that to her. She said she was unhappy, so find out from her why, then fix it. The one thing about relationships is that both partners have to sacrifice, and TRUST. Without trust, their isn’t love… You also have to realize that you now have a child to love and care for. Show this woman that she is the love of your life. Care for her, tell her she is beautiful, be patient and understanding, hold her, and protect her. I wish the best for you… ~Rachel

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