How to finger a girl

I was just wondering how to finger a girl cause there is a girl I know that wants me to and I want to but I dont know what to do. What do they like? How should I start things off because I know you dont just go straight for her pants. Also what do you do after you are done cause some of my friends have said that there is usually a really ackward moment afterwards. Also, what is head cause I always hear people saying it?

Answer #1

Okay kids, first of all, let me explain what the clit or clitoris is. the little nub at the top where the lips begin. there is a “hood” covering it. before you go there you’ll want to kiss her and touch her body, where ever she lets you… hold her tightly and rub her breasts and if she lets you touch and even lick or kiss her nipples, once you do this she should be wet.

you dont really want to start “fingering” until she’s nice and wet. once you go down stairs, if she’s still not wet, check for a pulse… just kidding, if she’s not wet, you can lick your fingers first and that will lube her lips up a little and make it easier for you to get a finger in between the lips, then just ease your way in, going upward to find the entry way. once you are you are in you can begin slowly, in and out motion… she should start feeling really good now, keep kissing her and use your other hand to explore her body, or run your hand through her hair.

the longer youre in there the faster you can go, if she likes it fast… then once she’s soaking wet you can take your finger(s) out and find her clit (under a little hood of skin, its a little ball like thing about the size of an eraser), dont attempt to touch it unless the area is pretty wet… you can stroke it with your fingers in a small fast motion up and down or side to side,whatever is easier. you can alternate with clitoral stimulation and vaginal stimulation.

here’s a great pic for you to see what you’re doing before you actually attempt it.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Clitoris

most of all take it slow and be gentle at first until she’s fully aroused, wet and swollen, then you can increase intensity as you go… have fun and stay safe!!!

Answer #2

ignore^^^ thats bull you cant know when you havent done it ok so umm hard to explain but this is how my boyfriend does it, like you kinda rub the clit and slowy put your finger inside putting in one more finger each time and like massaging back and forth , sorry I didnt explain it well

Answer #3

Ok, if you have to ask how to finger a girl, then you aren’t ready to finger a girl. I’ve never had it done, so I don’t knwo the answer to your first question.

But the answer to your second one, head is like , the begging of a guys dik.

Answer #4

wow… bonita..just wow, ok first off, just because you dont know doesn’t mean you aren’t ready its a LEARNING EXPERIENCE. if he has the decency to ask how to so he can give the girl the pleasure she would like then let him be. ok here is some pointers.

  • keep things wet(if she is dry its going to be nearly impossible) -foreplay is key(kissing, not just her lips, lightly touching her, etc.) -if its her first time, stick to ONE!! finger because more than that will most likely hurt her at first. -start outside in(rubbing,spreading the lips open, etc.)

anyways good luck

Answer #5

giving head is oral pleasure. a girl can give a guy head by sucking on his penis and a guy gives girl head by licking her vagina. you need to know about the clitoris, which is a major part of the vaginal area, as it is where loads of the nerves are, which is the easiest way to make her orgasm. it’s like a little bud, which is situated above her vaginal opening, you can touch it, rub it or lick and suck it, but remember to be gentle, as too much pressure can lead to pain. usually you can tell if shes enjoying it by her reaction. if she looks uncomfortable, slow down a little.

as for fingering, be slow, loads of foreplay… if you go in too soon, she might not be wet enough, and a dry vagina is a nightmere to finger, and this can cause pain for her too.

start in bed, relax, cuddle a little and start kissing, things will lead to another, go with the flow, gently stroke her stomach and her legs, teasing her, this should be a big turn on… as you stroke around her thighs. gently move to her kinckers. if she is wearing a skirt that will be easier. slide them down, but make sure she is still comfortable with it. gently touch around the outside of her vagina, if she is wet enough then insert one finger slowly, push it in and out, then go a bit deeper, if she is enjoying it, add another finger and so on… you can also rub her clit at the same time with your other hand or thumb… if you are stuck im sure she will guide you in the right direction =)

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