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How to convince my parents to let me go out with a girl ?

Well the thing is im 16 kinda and I have a girlfriend and my parents wont allow me to go see her or take her out I mean she lives 30 mins away that sux I really wanna see her so how do I do it How do I convince him abt it I mean im not committing a crime or smthn right? Oh yh and I tried the talk thing and did not work So how can I do it ?

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Answer #1

I don’t know if you’re a responsible kid or not… By this I mean grades, helping out around the house like taking the trash out, cleaning your room with out being told to do so, not rolling your eyes when they are talking to you and not talking back or losing your temper with them.

But assuming you are responsible, let them know that they are very important to you and their views of you are important. Let them know that you love and respect them and that if you are a responsible young adult (hit not a kid anymore) then you should be treated like one. And if you are that serious about the girl suggest a family outing with her and maybe even her family so that they all get to know each other. This way they will consider more openly minded to let you go out with her. Don’t act up if things don’t go your way… Just persue this slowly and gently with tactic.

Answer #2

no I don have any bros nor sis’s the thing is I want to take her out and see her I mean how can a relationship work on the net? my dad is strict and thinks that im still 16 I should be 18 to do this thats stupid !!!

Answer #3

I know how you feel. My mom won’t let my guy friend come over, but it’s not me or him, it’s my sis, she doesn’t want me to turn out like her. Have any older brothers or sisters that f*cked up? That’s probably the reason why. :\

Answer #4

show them that you are mature… if they don’t see that its more then likely the reason.. or they maybe just don’t think your ready and don’t want you to hurt her or make a mistake.

Answer #5

thx a lot btw what is guilt trip ?:P lol

Answer #6

yh I guess byt mature you mean by my grades and my responsibilities ?

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