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How should I go about having a 3 sum with my boyfriend & friend?

Okay so I brought up the idea to my boyfriend the other night to have a 3 sum with me, him and my friend that’s a girl. We all agreed to it and have been talking about it. I am very secure with my realationship with my boyfriend and I know that he wouldn’t leave me. My only concern is that it will possibly change the way I look at him. I’m not worried about the realtionship with my friend so much because it isn’t so much of a risk. I know that by doing this I’m taking a huge chance at ruining my relationship with my boyfriend but it could also be a very fun expirience for all 3 of us and we might not have any regrets which is what I’m hoping for. I’m really not that worried about it, I just have that little thought in the back of my mind. What do you think I should do?

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Answer #1

well it seems that you want to have the 3 some. saying that go for it cause its a new experience. but the real question is that do you want to risk how everything is now? like if you think you could have any regrets from it, then don’t but if you don’t think you will have any regrets then have fun. but I mean with regrets like now, would you have regrets like right after it would happen or whatever. because I hate when people say they regret for doing something when they really dont they are just mad about the situation. if a person is guna regret something then they wont do it.

Answer #2

unless your boyfriend is the type that gets over involved with a girl after he has sexual experiances with her, you shouldnt have to worry about him changing in the relationship (: ive had one or two 3 somes myself and it was fun (; lol (: but i would just ask him to be honest about it and see if he thinks he could do it without changing (: hope i helped (: -AlexxaBabyy*

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