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How can I stop wanting to be popular?

When my older brother was in high school he was really popular and went to parties and people just loved him. But now that I am in highschool I feel like thats what im obligated to do too. He always made me feel like I had to be popular or your not gonna enjoy highschool. and I look up to him. Like your suppose to be invited to parties and get drunk with random people but I just cant. Im not at the bottom of the food chain, actually im like 1 of the ones rite under the populars but still. Im always wondering what if I never get invited to parties and my brother thinks im a loser and then I always will rremeber high school as a horrible expirence. But I dont want to want to be popular. I wish I didnt care. I know that if it wasnt for my brother I wouldnt care cause I wouldnt know any better. I sooo wish it wouldnt bother me. I want to not care and jjust enjoy all the new friends I have made this year and appreciate them even if there not the most popular people in schhool. and I need like real advice. I dont want oh just not think about or sumthn like that like I want good advice cause I have no idea what I should do I really want to enjoy these four years. thxxx

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Answer #1

Oh yeah and its more than likely if you be yourself now, when you leave school people will be suckin up your arse :) dont ask how it works because I dont know, I’ve just noticed that myself, I was a bit of an outcast at school, I got on with people but still not exactly the “IN CREW” now every1 tries talking to me lol

Answer #2

Just think, if you was popular you could be hated sooo much by other people as they may end up thinkin your proper stuck up yur own arse as many people get wary of comin up and talkin to you… I’ve seen it happen myself, sometimes they can get real bad names but if you stick with your friends, stay where you are and not worry about it all youl be loved by many more people as your not trying to be somethin your not, just be yourself and youl be fine dont worry about it :D

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