How I will choose?

I have problem with my family I love a guy in different religion I am muslim and they want to force me to marry another guy that I even do not know him and my boyfriend saying to runaway with him I dunno what I have to do can someone help me do you think it’s good idea to run away with him? I am 16 years old and he is 19 and I live in canada but I am from turkey I been in canada for 3 years and I love my parents and I love the guy I don’t know what to choose?

Answer #1

Tell your parents that you love and respect them but that you have decided that your not going to marry someone you dont even know, but that when your ready you’ll value their blessing. Follow your heart, and dont make any decision based on fear but of truth. Hope this helps.

Answer #2

If it were me, I would run away with the man I love, because nothing is like true love and you can’t be in love with someone you are forced to marry, who you don’t even know. You won’t be happy with that person. Do you really want to spend the rest of your life living with a man who doesn’t fulfil your heart? Some may say that the boyfriend you’re with now, that he might not last. Well, maybe not. People change. But if you run away with him now and break up later (hopefully not) then you still have your chance to find true love. Whereas, if you marry this guy you’re being forced to marry, you’ll never find true love because you’ll be stuck with him.

I ran away from home when I was 16 (almost 17) to be with the man I fell in love with. Not because of religion, but because my parents did not like him and would have made me break up with him. I knew I had to run away to be with him and I’m so glad I did because I’m still with him and we’re so in love. I live on my own since I ran away but it’s okay because I’m with the person I love so much. Nothing is better than true love and it would be a shame to miss out on it. I hope that helps , let us know what happens. Good luck =)

Answer #3

I say.. get high school done..work real hard right now to look into dorms for college and loans and school aid. so when you turn legal adult you tell your parents that your doing your own things .

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