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How do you turn a guy down easily?

there is this guy who keeps asking me out to the movies, but I don’t want to go out with him. I keep avoiding the question. It’s not that I don’t like him, I just don’t like him in that way. I want to be friends with him, I don’t want to start dating him.

How do you tell a guy that you want to be his friend and don’t want to go out with him, without hurting his feelings?

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Answer #1

the only way to tell him is that you want to be friends and only friends. really simple. he might be hurt for awhile but he’ll get over it.

Answer #2

haha omg I have this same problem. what I did was I talked to him and I said ill ogo to the movies with you but just as friends and lets take a few friends so it isnt awkward ok ^ ^ he was cool with it and now we are becoming very good friends. you cant make someone not like you anymore but you can set the boundries… hope I helped and need further advice fun mail me ~kaitlyn~

Answer #3

im a guy and I hates turn down so the friend part dont cut it I mean you just got to be as stright but respetful

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