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im 13 nearly 14 and im goin out wiv dis lad whose 19, he sed he loves me and stuff, but hes a lot older than me and every1 says hes too old and that he dunt, what do you fink? x x x

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Answer #1

No age shouldn’t matter, but right now you’re way too young to be dating a guy his age. I mean come on you stopped playing with barbie dolls just yesterday and he’s an adult now. You still have to hold your moms hand to cross the street and he’s old enough to move out and do pretty much whatever. Point I’m trying to make is when you’re talking about a a kid and a young adult dating, age is a big factor. At age 13/14 you barely know how to spell love talking about being in love. I’m not trying to knock you because of your age but because you’re so young and inexperienced I would hate for hime to take advantage of you. When you’re 18 and he’s 23 then you can talk about love or anything else. Why then because you’re both adults and he won’t go to jail for messing with you, and because your mind and body will both be more mature. Be careful, stay young while you can, try dating guys more in your age range right now.

Answer #2

That happened to me, I was about 15 dating a 22 year old guy I thought who loved me…Thought I was pregant by him, thank God I wasnt bec. he said I would have to have an abortion. I have to say just BE CAREFUL…If you end up doing anything with this guy…be careful…go get birth control at the health dept or something. and dont think you wont get pregnant bec I seriously thought I was…please i beg of you…bec. I really dont know what a guy that age what he has in common with someone so young…I broke up with the guy I was dating when I found out I was NOT pregnant…he didnt care that much for me, I just thought he did and ended up sleeping w/him… :) Hope this helps…

Answer #3

If he is willing to wait till you legal than he loves you!

Answer #4

A nineteen-year-old boy should be going out with someone his age, not a thirteen-year-old (yes, even if she’s turning fourteen). He’s too old for you, and he’s probably creepy as hell. Dump him and date someone your age.

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