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How do I tell him how to please me in bed??

How can I tell my boyfriend hes good in bed, but not quite getting there?? He has no idea, and I dont wanna hurt him by telling him im not injoying it.. But cant be bothered to lie there for an hour bored…how do I tell him what to do??? Weve been together 2 and a half years, and I’ve got to the stage we will break up if this isnt right… Please help… Any suggestions???

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Answer #1

I agree, really tough conversation to bring up…just be careful, obviously it is a very sensitive subject specially after so long. He probably thinks he is a stud…lol…our egos are easily hurt…lmao

I would say maybe one time saying, hey lets try something different this time, or have you ever wanted to do it this way…you get the idea…lol

Answer #2

just hve a talk about the subject and say what you like. hve the talk like your exchanging ideas on what turns you on the most and if he gets the point and picks up the signs of what you want, then you shuldnt hve a problem afta that

Answer #3

just suggest things. guys get a kick when you tell them to do things sexually so offer suggestions like ‘lets try this’, or as crude as this sounds, the whole ‘quicker’ thing :L :) xxx

Answer #4

Just be honest with him, But he’s lucky to have you. I’d do you up the hole if I had ya ;)

Answer #5

Thanks ~:)

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