How do I show this guy that I like him?

Ok, so I have this friend that I have a crush on. The problem is that I haven’t had a legitimate crush in years, so I’m not sure what to do. See, I’m an enthusiastic person and tend to talk to everyone, and some guys have liked me without me intentionally doing anything. But I wasn’t into them and this guy that I like is a different sort of person.

In a nutshell, I don’t really know how to show him that I like him, specifically. But please, keep in mind that he’s my friend, I’m normally around him while with other friends, and he might possibly have a girlfriend (I’m not entirely sure- I’ve only known him for about a month). He and I have had some pretty deep conversations and we share a lot of the same perspectives (and fashion sense^^), so I’m hoping that he might warm up to me. I just would like to know how to speed up the process.

Thanks!

Answer #1

Oh well, im so glad that both of you had some deep conversations. Well, just be more straight-forward. Ask him whether he has girlfriend. If he asks why, you could give some stupid reasons like, “ Nah, im just curious. You are such a great guy. I guess there are a lot of girls wanting to be your girlfriend.”. Perhaps try this, “Hey, I found that you are such a good boyfriend-to-be. Your girlfriend must be very fortunate.”.

If he says he is single, that would be great yea. Just keep talking and show your concerns. But not too irritating. Maybe you can try texting him everyday or every 2-3 days. Let him get used for you to text him often. Then you can try “disappear” for few weeks. He may auto text you because he thinks weird that you didnt text him.

If he says he is attached, then dont be sad. There are still many good guys outside. The sky is so big- the world is so big. There must be someone waiting for you. He may not be in your country. Who knows? He may be in Korea?

Hope I helped. Good luck ! =]

Answer #2

I suggest finding out first if he has a significant other before pursuing him!

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