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How do I resolve my problem with my boyfriend?

I have been with my boyfriend for a year now and we have a great relationship. The only problem is that he is rather jelous, he cant stand it when guys from my past try and talk to me, and he enters my msn and other pages with my password and says its just curiosity. I have told him that it makes me feel uncomftable that he does it and he says that he trusts me. So why does he do it? I thought abourt changing my password but that would make things worse because he would think that I am trying to hide something. Im really stuck. I love him very much and I do not want to leave him but I just dont know how to deal with the jelousy. Please help!!!

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He’s overprotective. He apparently loves you a lot, to the extent that when he hears about or sees any other guy who looks like a person who could take you away, he over-reacts. He needs to learn how to give you personal space. He has good intentions, but you need to tell him that he needs to give you some space. One thing - he shouldn’t be going into your mail in the first place. Changing your password was the right thing to do - you can chose what you want to share with him. Your boyfriend isn’t going to like this, but I advise you go up to him and tell him frankly how you feel about what he does. If this continues on, soon he will be hogging your phone line telling you that you can’t talk to any other guys. This I know because I have seen an extreme case - and you don’t want that. So go up to him, and tell him. Hope I helped.

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