How do I know when to finger my girlfriend?

You’ll know when you both are in agreement. There is nothing wrong with JUST kissing at your age. The rest will come later. This isnt something that is questioned, or planned. When 2 mature people are in love, it happens naturally, and sponteneously. They dont have to ask how, or when it should happen!

Asking this means you are probably young, but if you want to do anything with her, ONE is respect her feelings (even if shes simply physically shy), and TWO… you could try touching her you know… clit. It feels 10 times better than fingering does at least for me and its not as inside her or anything, you don’t even have to take her pants off, just reach down! I’m not telling you to, but if you feel like you’re ready for the next step, its a safe bet. :)

I think there is one thing you should do. Wait!! You;re too young. If you do this, non-the-less if you girlfriend let’s you do this, you could lose your respect for her. And aslo, the fact that you really have to ask, shows that you’re just too young. So wait until you don’t feel like you have to ask.

thanks for the advice. does anyone else think I shud do something else?

people sex is life understand that and 80% of human action is based on sex. I understand 15 is quite young but its normal to have sex at that young of a age.