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How do I know if im really bisexual?

I have always thought of myself as straight.. I am a 24,year old woman, and my best friend is bisexual. Im not really sure what to do because I feel like maybe im truly bi. I kinda have developed feeling for my best friend that sorta goes beyong friendship.. Shes bi, but im scared to say anything to her.. Im not really sure what to do.

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Answer #1

Yeah, this one is a tough one. I’d say quit obsessing about labels (alright I know it’s hard, I’ve been trying to find the right label for myself for years now) and just figure out whether you like her or not. If you like her but never fall for another girl again what does that mean? If you end up with a girl for the rest of your life what does that mean? If you have something with her, but then end up with only guys after that what does that mean? Labels are little boxes that people like to stick us in because it makes them comfortable. And yeah, it provides us with security too. But seriously, try not to worry about what this means about you. I would be careful. And I’d say the same thing if she were a guy. When you get romantically involved with your best friend, things always get complicated. But you can tell her you’ve been thinking about it. You dont have to tell her who. She is your best friend after all. Or you can talk to other friends about it. For now, dont worry about what this means so much. Just figure out how you feel about her.

Answer #2

this might help you Straight = sexually attracted to the opposite sex only Gay = sexually attracted to the same sex only Bi-sexual = equally sexually attracted to both sexes Bi-curious = sexually attracted to the opposite sex but are open to experimentation with the same sex

Answer #3

I think scince youve been hangin around her for a while you feel like you are. but your not makeout with a girl see if it feels right

Answer #4

I thinkk youu should qo clubbin with her qet drunk andd use that as excuse to kiss her,(haha) maybe dha next day youu cann tell her youu likedd it ndd you want to try somethinqq new (qoin out witt girls) andd she mite like youu too its very possible.

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