How do I handle the fact I had a miscarriage?

hello..I just recently started dating this guy..he’s a great guy. He’s always been there for me whenever I need him. He’s a really busy guy he works and goes to school and has a kid but he still finds time to talk to me..well recently I just found out I had a miscarriage and it hurt my heart because I didn’t even know I was pregnant..it took me like a day or so to tell him but I did and he just kept saying you had a miscarriage?when? he asked that about 3 times..then he said oh sorry and it was just that…before I told him that he told me he had been in nc cause his sister was bleeding internally..this all happened the same day…after hearing that I really didn’t wanna tell him but I already told him I went to the dr and they told me something and he insisted I told him what was wrong…he’s been kinda withdrawing from me but when I ask him if he’s ok he says he is…does he not care about me having a miscarriage or about me at all?

Answer #1

It’s taking him time to handle all this, like you said he’s a perty busy guy and he needs to keep up whit a lot of things. And meaby he knows nothing about it because he’s a boy and he really dose’t know what to say to you or how to help you. Meaby he is feeling helpless right now.

But talk to him and let him tell you everything all that he is feeling and let him know how you are feeling. But also give him his time, he has a lot going on.

GOOD LUCK:)

Answer #2

well most guys freak out when it comes out to babies. but most men would support you and act like they really care if they love you and care for you and yuour health. just try to talk to him about it. see what he says. ask him. you can talk to me about?! im here.

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